You can really kiss dating goodbye

According to the New York Times columnist Charles M. Blow (what a name), US college students are leaving the art of dating behind. Embrace the new phenomenon – hooking up.

(For those over 30 years old: hooking up is a casual sexual encounter with no expectation of future emotional commitment. Think of it as a one-night stand with someone you know.)

So why is there an increase in hooking up? According to Professor Bogle, it’s: the collapse of advanced planning, lopsided gender ratios on campus, delaying marriage, relaxing values and sheer momentum.

It used to be that “you were trained your whole life to date,” said Ms. Bogle. “Now we’ve lost that ability — the ability to just ask someone out and get to know them.”

Now that’s sad.


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One response to “You can really kiss dating goodbye

  1. winnie

    Movies have taken out the romance of dating, the romance of waiting … getting to know someone … probably cos that’s boring when portrayed on screen. More exciting to show a couple rolling around in the hay. Makes better TV.

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